I just come here because I'm the youngest on the forum and feel like over the past few years my views have changed by listening to other's stories and such.
I don't really discuss music with anyone. I prefer the music to the lyrics, which is why some times when I listen to a song because of its beat for so long and finally hear the lyrics, I stop liking the song because the lyrics are straight up dumb. But still, when I listen to a new album or mixtape, I skip through the songs with beats that don't capture my interest. I skip to the middle, see if the beat picked up, if not, skip the song entirely and move on.
Which is why I've gone more towards trance and instrumentals and such. Spotify really helped me with that. I don't discover new hip hop on Spotify. It's usually whatever gets posted on Facebook from by friends through YouTube videos.