Finally, I can move on! But need advice...

Shadows

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#1
I had a big incident, where my ex came with her step dad to threaten me if I didn't sign her the car over, he would fuck me up. Apparently, she gave up on the car, but she ended up wanting it again b/c her mom's car was taken away for having no insurance. :lol: So, I had to call the cops b/c he wouldn't leave.

After the incident, my manager just got tired of it and agreed to just let me off the lease. I just got my 30 day notice...so rather than staying there till Sept. 1st, i can be out by July 2nd.

Now, hopefully I wont have to deal with that bitch anymore.

The only thing I hate though, is moving in back with my mom.

I have to deal with:

11 yr old niece,
7 yr old niece,
3 yr old hyper-active niece,
3 yr old hyper-active brother,
15 yr old sister (which is okay, cuz she is actually cool, i just get tired of all her depressing music blaring all the time.)

and finally my old ass parents that get tired of dealing with all these kids b/c they have to take care of them, since my sis is a crack fiend.

Anyone have experience moving back in with their parents?

When I moved out, I had problems with them, b/c I was going to college and work full-time....and i would stay out long nights with my ex. So, it caused problems.

Since my schedule will be virtually the same, I don't want to go through with someone bitching about having me home again on a certain time, if I am already turning 21 this summer....

What should I do to somehow come to an agreement between us?

I understand that I am with them again and I listen to their rules and help them out. But I also understand that we live in a 2 story house, and me coming home late shouldn't bug them if I am not loud and I don't have privacy living in the living room anyway.

I don't want to be in a Yeshua type situation where they want to dig through my shit either.


:suspicious:
 

S O F I

Administrator
Staff member
#5
for my first two years of college i lived on campus (first year in the dorms and then an apartment the second year) and for my junior year (current) I moved back home to save money and the like. For me it's easier because it's just my mom and sister but the only advice I can give is to not let the little things bother you - the noise, the irrational unjustified parenting, unfair distribution of house resources, etc...just say fuck it, not worth arguing.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#7
I'm jealous. Shadows thanked hizzle and Sofi but not me or flipmo... :(

On another note, Shadows did you establish some rules with your mother? Explain that while you know you're moving back and must help out you are 21 and therefore need to be able to go out at night with no problems
 

Shadows

Well-Known Member
#8
^my closest friends are the ones that backstabbed me. ahaha. Fuck that. The people I were closest to outside my family backstabbed me. Not gonna take that chance again... at least not for a while.

EDIT: Carmi, Hizzle Made me laugh.
 

Rahim

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Staff member
#13
if you want some advice, i say listen to a tupac song because anything you can think of, he's probably made a song about it.

For example, when you move out your moms house you should be playing the song "Happy Home" as you leave the drive way.

The following lyric should be kept in mind as u leave the drive way "finally moved out my moms house, and got a happy home."

because indeed your goal is to have a happy home, so it only makes sense that you play happy home when you leave the flock you stool pigeon.
 

ill-matic

Well-Known Member
#14
if you want some advice, i say listen to a tupac song because anything you can think of, he's probably made a song about it.

For example, when you move out your moms house you should be playing the song "Happy Home" as you leave the drive way.

The following lyric should be kept in mind as u leave the drive way "finally moved out my moms house, and got a happy home."

because indeed your goal is to have a happy home, so it only makes sense that you play happy home when you leave the flock you stool pigeon.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#15
EDIT: Carmi, Hizzle Made me laugh.
i know i know
if you want some advice, i say listen to a tupac song because anything you can think of, he's probably made a song about it.

For example, when you move out your moms house you should be playing the song "Happy Home" as you leave the drive way.

The following lyric should be kept in mind as u leave the drive way "finally moved out my moms house, and got a happy home."

because indeed your goal is to have a happy home, so it only makes sense that you play happy home when you leave the flock you stool pigeon.
he's moving back in his mom's house... lmao
 

Flipmo

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Staff member
#16
I'm jealous. Shadows thanked hizzle and Sofi but not me or flipmo... :(

On another note, Shadows did you establish some rules with your mother? Explain that while you know you're moving back and must help out you are 21 and therefore need to be able to go out at night with no problems

Why would he thank me for hypothetically hitting on his nieces? lol
 

Sebastian

Well-Known Member
#17
if you want some advice, i say listen to a tupac song because anything you can think of, he's probably made a song about it.

For example, when you move out your moms house you should be playing the song "Happy Home" as you leave the drive way.

The following lyric should be kept in mind as u leave the drive way "finally moved out my moms house, and got a happy home."

because indeed your goal is to have a happy home, so it only makes sense that you play happy home when you leave the flock you stool pigeon.
Fuuuuuuck, i wanna stomp your head into the ground. Holy crap.

You are the best example of why evolution does not always make a step forward.
 

Rahim

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Staff member
#19
i know i know


he's moving back in his mom's house... lmao
fuck me. really... fuck me carmi.

Fuuuuuuck, i wanna stomp your head into the ground. Holy crap.

You are the best example of why evolution does not always make a step forward.
and you are the reason why one lucky shrink will be able to send his kid to university this fall. thank you.
 

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