So I bought another dog

_carmi

me, myself & us
#1
and ever since I brought her home (yesterday) I regret my decision. Tell me I'm a bad person and tell me what the fuck is wrong with me. She's an adorable female doggie. Super affectionate, not really pretty but kinda cute.

When I saw I kind of liked her. 24hrs later she was bought, another 24hrs later she was at our place. And now I just wished I could go back 48hrs ago and just not stop at the pet shop. And although I don't want her anymore, I feel bad giving her up, even if its probably going to be to my parents where she will have a yard, a cat to play with, and probably a good life as well.
 

dilla

Trumpfan17 aka Coonie aka Dilla aka Tennis Dog
#2
Yeah, you probably shouldn't have bought that dog. They're alot harder to sell than babies.
 

S O F I

Administrator
Staff member
#4
I don't understand. I understand when lonely, single women get a dog. Most do. But you have a job, go to school, and a boyfriend? I have trouble keeping up with Streethop and 2dopeboyz posts, let alone trying to feed a damn dog.
 

Da_Funk

Well-Known Member
#5
and ever since I brought her home (yesterday) I regret my decision. Tell me I'm a bad person and tell me what the fuck is wrong with me. She's an adorable female doggie. Super affectionate, not really pretty but kinda cute.

When I saw I kind of liked her. 24hrs later she was bought, another 24hrs later she was at our place. And now I just wished I could go back 48hrs ago and just not stop at the pet shop. And although I don't want her anymore, I feel bad giving her up, even if its probably going to be to my parents where she will have a yard, a cat to play with, and probably a good life as well.
House breaking her is a pain in the ass so I understand where your coming from. Once you get past that intial month though you won't regret it.
 

stefanwzyga

Well-Known Member
#6
Where would the dog be all day when your at work, or school, or whatever it is you do? It aint fair on the pup to leave it on her/his own.
 

Flipmo

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Staff member
#7
What breed of dog?

If you do decide ultimately that you cannot take care of her, and you don't know where to bring her... lemme know.
I know a few places better than the SPCA that take care of dogs that aren't wanted anymore and their adoption rate is quite high. Dogs that have been there for months aren't put down either like they would at the SPCA after a long period of time.
 

ArtsyGirl

Well-Known Member
#8
First mistake: Buying from a Pet Shop (unless it is actually puppy-mill free)

I don't quite understand why you regret it. Is the dog annoying? The two dog's don't get along? What?
 

Pittsey

Knock, Knock...
Staff member
#9
I'd sell it to a korean. Then you can share the dog over a loaf of bread and talk of the good times you and said Doggy shared.
 

Chronic

Well-Known Member
#10
It happens, just make sure you learn from it. Like Artsy pointed out buying from pet shops generally isn't a good idea unless you know where the dogs come from (getting a dog from a shelter would be better regardless). If you ban pet shops from your possibilities you won't impulse-buy an animal next time. You won't be a bad person unless you take the easy way out now and just get rid of it wherever it's most convenient. Keep the dog until you find a suitable family (that will really take care of the dog, not just feed it and walk it) for her and your social life will have to suffer so you can take proper care of the dog while it's still in your house. If all else fails, take up FlipMo's offer.
 

Elmira

Well-Known Member
#12
Maybe you want a baby and you're substituting that need by buying up puppies and baby gorillas. Just remember you can't return a baby after 48 hrs.
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#14
Why did you purchase the dog?
Why do you regret it?


Hi carmi btw.
I bought it because I found her adorable. She's affectionate. She's a shih-tzu mixed pinscher. I also thought if I am ever going to get a second dog, I have to do so now while Chico is still young. Because chihuahuas become bitter old men when they grow older.

I think I regret it because:
1) I don't think I'll ever love her like I love Chico. Chico was my first real puppy of mine. She can't stand a chance against Chico in my heart. I think I'm a one dog gal.
2) Housebreak a dog is a pain and I think I had forgotten about that when I bought her.

House breaking her is a pain in the ass so I understand where your coming from. Once you get past that intial month though you won't regret it.
Well I'm hoping I'll get attached to her enough. I can't keep her for months and then give her up. She was already given up once.

Housebreaking is no fun though. And I dunno if I have the patience to go through that again.

What breed of dog?

If you do decide ultimately that you cannot take care of her, and you don't know where to bring her... lemme know.
I know a few places better than the SPCA that take care of dogs that aren't wanted anymore and their adoption rate is quite high. Dogs that have been there for months aren't put down either like they would at the SPCA after a long period of time.
It's a shih-tzu mixed with pinscher.
Honestly if I do decide to give her up I'm going to try to get my parents to take her. At least I'll know she's safe and I'll still get to see her every week or so.
First mistake: Buying from a Pet Shop (unless it is actually puppy-mill free)

I don't quite understand why you regret it. Is the dog annoying? The two dog's don't get along? What?
It is a puppy-mill free. And the dog I bought was brought to the pet shop by a man when she was approx 3 months old because he wasn't able to take care of her.

She's not particularly annoying. She is damaging my leather couches tho. And (as I'm typing) hanging on my curtains...
The dogs didn't get along the first day, like AT ALL. The 2nd day they got better. Chico does try to attack her when she gets too close of either myself or my bf (if we are alone) but when we are both together we both have one or they share.
She doesn't particularly like me though. She likes my bf (to the point of crying when he goes to the washroom). She liked my sisters when she met them.

Why do I regret it? I just feel I'll never like her as my own. I will also blame it on school stress and exhaustion. Truth is I should give it time before giving her up. I should give her 2-3 weeks before making a decision. I see the dogs play together sometimes, its cute.

I dunno. I'm a woman and I don't know what I want LOL
I keep changing my mind every hour. I'm annoying myself.


 

Flipmo

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Staff member
#15
Looks like they're starting to bond. Might be a sign for good things to come (minus the hanging off the curtains like Tarzan)
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#16
^Ya I know. You know, I'm a woman and I'm complicated. Like any other woman.

Honestly, I dunno why I'm not being rational about this.

And yes they are bonding :) It's cute when they get along. Chico sleeps with us, she sleeps on the floor next to our bed. I think I'll keep it that way. Doesn't seem like she cares anyways. She always sleeps on the floor while Chico sleeps on the couch or on us. I think furry dogs like floors better.
 

Flipmo

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Staff member
#17
My furry dogs prefer the bed.
Your furry buddy there might have learned from his previous owner to sleep on the floor, unlike Chico who once you got him, you kept him on the bed with you from day one. It's just a question of habit. Unless that wasn't the case with your Mexican buddy there (Chico, not the Mexican man you hide in your closet).
 

_carmi

me, myself & us
#18
^Damn how did you know I was hiding a Mexican man in my closet?!

Ya well wtv it is I like it that way. I like that habit of hers to stay on the floor as much as possible.

Ps I'm supposed to study.
 

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