this portion of the book was directed towards women. it was so good i decided to translate it and share it. people were a lot smarter back in the days.
The way to a happy love life
Get your work out of the way
Plan and schedule your tasks with accuracy, and always keep track of time. Complete all your tasks at least one hour before your husband comes home. A man doesn't exactly feel wanted when he surprises you by being home earlier than you had thought.
Have dinner ready
Plan a tasty and delicious meal the night in advance. This is a way of showing him you care for him and his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home from work, and a good dinner is necessary.
Prepare yourself
Spend some time resting so you are in shape for when he comes home. You will then be happy to see him as well, instead of being too tired to care. Forget all your worries, and be happy that the man who will be walking through the door shortly is yours to care for. While resting, you can plan appointsments to get out of his way, and uplift his spirit. When you get up, care for your appearance. Fix your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair, and try to look healthy and sharp. Try to be more cheerful and interesting than usual. He needs something to keep up his spirit after the long day at work.
Clean away the mess
Take a last stroll around the house before he comes home after work, gather books, toys, and other things, and put them in a box. Sort them later. Then, clean the dust from tables around the house. The man in your life needs to know he has a home that is a place of peace. Through keeping your home tidy, you also show your man how much you truly care about him.
Prepare the children
Spend a few minutes washing your childrens' hands and face (if they are little), cob their hair and change their clothes if they are dirty. The children are his treasures, and their appearance should reflect this.
Reduce all sound
Pay attention to whether your man has to struggle with the rush-hour traffic when he drives to and from work. When he comes home, eliminate all sounds from applications like the dish washer (this goes without saying if it is turned on). Encourage the chilrend to remain calm and quiet when he is home. If necessary, let them run free before he comes home, allowing them to get it out of their system.
Act happy to see him
Greet him with a warm smile, and act happy. Tell him it's nice to have him back home. This can give his day further value. He needs all the romance you can give him.
Don't!!!!!
Don't greet him with your own problems. Sovle them before he comes home. If you can't, save them for the evening. Also, don't complain if he comes home late from work. Think of this as a trivial problem compared to what he may have endured at work that day. Don't let the chilren flood him with their problems either. Only let them briefly greet their father.
Be nice to him
Give him the place on the couch, or suggest that maybe he rests his eyes in the bedroom for a little while. Have a hot or cold drink ready for him. Offer to massage his feet, but do not insist on this. Talk to him in a calm and soothing voice. Allow him to always be relaxed.
The way to a happy love life
Get your work out of the way
Plan and schedule your tasks with accuracy, and always keep track of time. Complete all your tasks at least one hour before your husband comes home. A man doesn't exactly feel wanted when he surprises you by being home earlier than you had thought.
Have dinner ready
Plan a tasty and delicious meal the night in advance. This is a way of showing him you care for him and his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home from work, and a good dinner is necessary.
Prepare yourself
Spend some time resting so you are in shape for when he comes home. You will then be happy to see him as well, instead of being too tired to care. Forget all your worries, and be happy that the man who will be walking through the door shortly is yours to care for. While resting, you can plan appointsments to get out of his way, and uplift his spirit. When you get up, care for your appearance. Fix your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair, and try to look healthy and sharp. Try to be more cheerful and interesting than usual. He needs something to keep up his spirit after the long day at work.
Clean away the mess
Take a last stroll around the house before he comes home after work, gather books, toys, and other things, and put them in a box. Sort them later. Then, clean the dust from tables around the house. The man in your life needs to know he has a home that is a place of peace. Through keeping your home tidy, you also show your man how much you truly care about him.
Prepare the children
Spend a few minutes washing your childrens' hands and face (if they are little), cob their hair and change their clothes if they are dirty. The children are his treasures, and their appearance should reflect this.
Reduce all sound
Pay attention to whether your man has to struggle with the rush-hour traffic when he drives to and from work. When he comes home, eliminate all sounds from applications like the dish washer (this goes without saying if it is turned on). Encourage the chilrend to remain calm and quiet when he is home. If necessary, let them run free before he comes home, allowing them to get it out of their system.
Act happy to see him
Greet him with a warm smile, and act happy. Tell him it's nice to have him back home. This can give his day further value. He needs all the romance you can give him.
Don't!!!!!
Don't greet him with your own problems. Sovle them before he comes home. If you can't, save them for the evening. Also, don't complain if he comes home late from work. Think of this as a trivial problem compared to what he may have endured at work that day. Don't let the chilren flood him with their problems either. Only let them briefly greet their father.
Be nice to him
Give him the place on the couch, or suggest that maybe he rests his eyes in the bedroom for a little while. Have a hot or cold drink ready for him. Offer to massage his feet, but do not insist on this. Talk to him in a calm and soothing voice. Allow him to always be relaxed.
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