13 y/o father
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Alfie, 13, Not The Dad, DNA Tests Reveal
10:18am UK, Tuesday May 19, 2009
Schoolboy Alfie Patten did not father a baby when he was 12, DNA tests have shown.
Alfie Patten: Paternity test revealed another teenager is the father
The boy, now 13, believed baby Maisie was his biological daughter.
But a paternity test revealed that another teenager is the father of the child, born to a girl of 15.
Attempts by East Sussex County Council to ban reports of the result failed.
Alfie, from Eastbourne, was "extremely distressed" when told he was not the father, the judgement from Mrs Justice Eleanor King revealed.
Mrs Justice King said the mother had been taunted in the street and called a "slut" by strangers since her pregnancy.
"I was crying a lot every day," the girl said.
The story renewed calls for better sex education in England, which has the highest rate of teenage pregnancies in western Europe.
10:18am UK, Tuesday May 19, 2009
Schoolboy Alfie Patten did not father a baby when he was 12, DNA tests have shown.
Alfie Patten: Paternity test revealed another teenager is the father
The boy, now 13, believed baby Maisie was his biological daughter.
But a paternity test revealed that another teenager is the father of the child, born to a girl of 15.
Attempts by East Sussex County Council to ban reports of the result failed.
Alfie, from Eastbourne, was "extremely distressed" when told he was not the father, the judgement from Mrs Justice Eleanor King revealed.
Mrs Justice King said the mother had been taunted in the street and called a "slut" by strangers since her pregnancy.
"I was crying a lot every day," the girl said.
The story renewed calls for better sex education in England, which has the highest rate of teenage pregnancies in western Europe.
What kind of 15 y.o. girl has a bf of 13 y.o. who is not even the father of the kid she just delivered! And who makes believe the poor little boy he is the father and that she slept with no one else!
Not that screaming to her in the streets that she is a slut is excusable, but you can't expect people not to think of you that way after all that has happened. Fuck even I had better judgment at that age... 15 is not that young either.
Not that screaming to her in the streets that she is a slut is excusable, but you can't expect people not to think of you that way after all that has happened. Fuck even I had better judgment at that age... 15 is not that young either.
2 years difference isn't that big an age gap though. From what I understood she thought it was the 13 year olds baby. Not saying her behaviour is ok but I dont see how its the general public's business. At 15 in that situation it's not helping her being abused in the street, that could fuck her head up even more.
who gives a fuck? just one case of many where a young chick gets knocked up by a young boy .. happens alot in lower income areas...
usually the age is around 15-16 tho but 13 is definately not unheard of.. now shes going to get a lifetime supply of diapers or someshyt because her story (of thousands) gets publicized.. shyt shes actually lucky
usually the age is around 15-16 tho but 13 is definately not unheard of.. now shes going to get a lifetime supply of diapers or someshyt because her story (of thousands) gets publicized.. shyt shes actually lucky
I'm saying she got this coming to her. Cheating on her 13 y.o. bf with other boys. C'mon at 15 y.o. you have the intelligence to not act like a hoe.
Obviously it's not the general public's business. As I said nobody should scream names to her in the streets. But she can't expect not to be judged. The world is like is like high school, only bigger and harsher. A 15 y.o. girl is conscious of her behavior. She chose to sleep with several boys at the same time period. I'm sure she didn't plan the pregnancy, but regardless she is a slut for the several boys she's been sleeping with and not because she got pregnant.
Obviously it's not the general public's business. As I said nobody should scream names to her in the streets. But she can't expect not to be judged. The world is like is like high school, only bigger and harsher. A 15 y.o. girl is conscious of her behavior. She chose to sleep with several boys at the same time period. I'm sure she didn't plan the pregnancy, but regardless she is a slut for the several boys she's been sleeping with and not because she got pregnant.
I always thought 15 year olds were really immature, well most of them. I didn't see where she had slept with more than 2 boys I don't see how this automatically paints her as a slut. She may have ( I dont know ) made a mistake one night and that was enough to get her pregnant, and now she gets this tag. I don't think there is enough information out there to judge so harshly.
It is sad though that the World is like a big High School.
Agree to disagree me thinks.
It is sad though that the World is like a big High School.
Agree to disagree me thinks.
Schoolboy father: Alfie Patten 'distraught' at claims Maisie not his - Telegraph
And I dunno about teens in Australia but here in Montreal, Qc, Canada they are pretty aware about what sex is, how it can make you pregnant and how having several sex partners can make people believe you are a slut.
And I dunno about teens in Australia but here in Montreal, Qc, Canada they are pretty aware about what sex is, how it can make you pregnant and how having several sex partners can make people believe you are a slut.
Just because several boys come forward claiming to be the father in a media fueled situation doesn't mean she actually slept with them. Doesn't mean she didn't either, I'm just saying.
I don't know about 15 year olds here, I don't sit down and discuss sex with them but I do know 15 year olds can be stupid sometimes. As froggy said this isn't an unusual case.
I don't know about 15 year olds here, I don't sit down and discuss sex with them but I do know 15 year olds can be stupid sometimes. As froggy said this isn't an unusual case.
1. Where are the parents?
2. She should not be shunned from society and labelled as a "slut". Yes, in some sense she is, but by slandering her in that way does nothing. Remember, she is a CHILD. A young, impressionable child, who has obviously been raised in an environment sufficiently lacking in a strong moral fibre and values. What does vilifying her achieve? We outcast her from society, and then what?
3. Leading on from above; save the labels and keep them to yourself. The child is clearly needing some form of guidance in the right direction. She needs help. She needs looking after. What she doesn't need is to be punished. Who are you to judge? Her deeds haven't hurt anybody but herself.
2. She should not be shunned from society and labelled as a "slut". Yes, in some sense she is, but by slandering her in that way does nothing. Remember, she is a CHILD. A young, impressionable child, who has obviously been raised in an environment sufficiently lacking in a strong moral fibre and values. What does vilifying her achieve? We outcast her from society, and then what?
3. Leading on from above; save the labels and keep them to yourself. The child is clearly needing some form of guidance in the right direction. She needs help. She needs looking after. What she doesn't need is to be punished. Who are you to judge? Her deeds haven't hurt anybody but herself.
why would they claim that if they didn't sleep with her?
i won't say she's a slut or anything because even thou at 15 i think you able to think by yourself,i think that's just how she's been raised...if she was raised well,with principles and all,she would know sleeping with plenty of guys at the times it's bad...even sleeping with a guy at 15 it's bad but it's just my opinion...
so artisticgurl stop being naive and play with words, she did something wrong now that's just the consequences... they say you learn from mistakes, well each one his mistakes,she did a real big mistake she will learn from it...
i won't say she's a slut or anything because even thou at 15 i think you able to think by yourself,i think that's just how she's been raised...if she was raised well,with principles and all,she would know sleeping with plenty of guys at the times it's bad...even sleeping with a guy at 15 it's bad but it's just my opinion...
so artisticgurl stop being naive and play with words, she did something wrong now that's just the consequences... they say you learn from mistakes, well each one his mistakes,she did a real big mistake she will learn from it...
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