Finally, I can move on! But need advice...

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I had a big incident, where my ex came with her step dad to threaten me if I didn't sign her the car over, he would fuck me up. Apparently, she gave up on the car, but she ended up wanting it again b/c her mom's car was taken away for having no insurance. :lol: So, I had to call the cops b/c he wouldn't leave.

After the incident, my manager just got tired of it and agreed to just let me off the lease. I just got my 30 day notice...so rather than staying there till Sept. 1st, i can be out by July 2nd.

Now, hopefully I wont have to deal with that bitch anymore.

The only thing I hate though, is moving in back with my mom.

I have to deal with:

11 yr old niece,
7 yr old niece,
3 yr old hyper-active niece,
3 yr old hyper-active brother,
15 yr old sister (which is okay, cuz she is actually cool, i just get tired of all her depressing music blaring all the time.)

and finally my old ass parents that get tired of dealing with all these kids b/c they have to take care of them, since my sis is a crack fiend.

Anyone have experience moving back in with their parents?

When I moved out, I had problems with them, b/c I was going to college and work full-time....and i would stay out long nights with my ex. So, it caused problems.

Since my schedule will be virtually the same, I don't want to go through with someone bitching about having me home again on a certain time, if I am already turning 21 this summer....

What should I do to somehow come to an agreement between us?

I understand that I am with them again and I listen to their rules and help them out. But I also understand that we live in a 2 story house, and me coming home late shouldn't bug them if I am not loud and I don't have privacy living in the living room anyway.

I don't want to be in a Yeshua type situation where they want to dig through my shit either.


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shadows, you mention me but as far as moving out is concerned i haven't even attempted to move out of home yet. it was one of my goals to get my own place this year, and now half way through the year i know what i have to do to obtain that kind of independance of having my own place. my parents snooping through my stuff doesn't bother me as much as my goals, yeah its intrusive, and as soon as i can move out i will, but i wont do it just because of people snooping in my room
 

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