k69atie said:
i am doing i am at home i aint even dressed yet!! these are my rules they gave me:
no sex for 4 weeks
not allowed to use tampons for my next 2 periods (argh pads!!! for 2 periods!!)
not allowed to add anything to my bath (ie bubble bath) for 4 weeks.
no swimming for 4 weeks.
i have a check up in april
Yeah, I got the same rules when I had my abortion. They told me I couldn't have sex for as long as I was bleeding, then they told me I'd bleed for 3 - 4 weeks, I was like :woah: :woah: :woah: I wasn't allowed to use tampons either. I did cheat though, they only tell you that because it might cause an infection. I don't recommend the cheating though lol.
I went to see a gynecologist (actually two) because I had to do two ultrasounds before the actual abortion. They were both male, the first one was absolutely horrible. He was very judgemental and wanted me to get tested for STDs etc.

The second one almost made me laugh, he examines women all the time and he was all nervous :laugh: .