Official Bitch Shit Thread

[Shadows]

So check it, I got 3 stories of Bitch Shit....Please feel free to add to the Bitch Shit you Deal with, it obviously doesn't have to be personal like my stories.

1) At work, I guess 3 girls got knocked up at the same time, and this girl i used to be cool with got preggo, and is now the 4th one.

She has a rep for being a bitch, but for some reason she was always freakin cool with me. So, whatever, I went to work like nothing a few weeks ago and i guess someone tells me that she's preggo. I didn't say shit since i knew she didn't have a boyfriend, (or so i thought).

I felt it was a dirty rumor of everyone saying someone else was preggo just to be funny.

Apparently, it was true and i didn't tell no one, that person is telling everyone and now this bitch is being...a bitch to me saying that I told everyone she was pregnant. smh. She doesn't believe me and now I want to quit, but I can't. I haven't went to my manager about this bc he's always gone. He only works 4 hours, and i'm on the field during that time. smh

2) The past few weeks, my mom got a house and I told her i wasn't moving in with her. I went and helped paint their house. While she's paying attention to that house, the kids are in this house starving bc my mom is always over there or at work, so i told her to make food available to us, or them, at least.

She got offended.

I got no thank you for painting her house, buying stuff for it, and i got no thank you for feeding the kids most of the time.... until i got tired of it. I'm supposed to be saving up for my place, not for them. This happened on the 14th...and since then, my mom, the one that gave me birth, didn't even say happy b-day the next day, the 15th.

...but the son that stole her jewelry, she's writing letters to the fool and sending him money. -________- and i had to drop out of college bc i couldn't afford it no more.

Then my step dad, we were arguin before, and I wasn't talking to him, but i said Happy Fathers day out of respect, and he isn't man enough to say happy b-day to me. smh

3) My ex fiance comes out of nowhere, after 2 years, talking about how she wants the car. GTFO of here with that bullshit. The only reason why i opened the door is because she cut her hair, had huge glasses on and i didn't recognize her.

I'm doing everything I can to get out of having a normal life. This is all bull, man.

 

[dilla]

You need to leave the city, pimp. That's why I went out of state for school. Hell, I went out-of-region for school. I came back four years later, and six-plus people are dead, even more are pregnant, a few have been to jail, and the rest have made themselves irrelevant. Life weeded them out.

Again in a few weeks, I leave my parents house and head for a hospital out-of-state again in Ohio for school-related stuff. So again, I leave what's happening here and get to watch it from a distance using Facebook, thank my stars I have my parents financially and for guidance, and move on.

Unfortunately, the latter may not apply to you, but it's a privilege, not a right, and I'm really lucky for that. But you're slowly killing yourself by being around negativity like this. But it's not like you're some scumbag fuck, either. It would be a different story if you too did drugs, stole, had no direction in your life, etc.

One thing that sticks out sorely in your story is "Apparently, it was true and i didn't tell no one, that person is telling everyone and now this bitch is being...a bitch to me saying that I told everyone she was pregnant."

Rumors do just "spring up" out of nowhere and generally have no foundation of truth, but there is always a tad bit of something there that allows someone smart to trace where it came from or why it was started. You seem to be the victim here, but it's hard to be sympathetic because you associate with her for being a bitch. Knowing this, and you still talked to her (at that time) is a huge mistake. And allows for accusations to be thrown around like turds in a monkey house.

No comment about your family issues, though. I sympathize, but I'd be lying if I told you "I know how you feel." Just keep your head up. Don't burn bridges with anyone, ever, especially family. Doesn't mean you should be the skipper on the sinking ship. Hopefully they'll right the shit themselves or you'll be long gone for it to bring your life into shambles too.

 

[_carmi]

Wow that's shit.

For the work situation, don't quit. Fuck that bullshit and do your own thing.

As for the family situation, I guess dealing with parents is never easy. Good luck. That's all I can really say.

 

[Sebastian]

Wow that's shit.

For the work situation, don't quit. Fuck that bullshit and do your own thing.

As for the family situation, I guess dealing with parents is never easy. Good luck. That's all I can really say.

Then you are wrong. For some people it is the easiest thing in the world.

Plus, the stuff dilla said about never burn bridges with family members: if my mother, for example, is such a low life character then i would leave her behind sooner or later. Thats for sure.

 

[vg4030]

Sebastian makes me moist

 

[_carmi]

Then you are wrong. For some people it is the easiest thing in the world.

Plus, the stuff dilla said about never burn bridges with family members: if my mother, for example, is such a low life character then i would leave her behind sooner or later. Thats for sure.

Yeah.. because leaving your relatives behind is such an easy thing to do [/sarcasm]

 

[dilla]

Then you are wrong. For some people it is the easiest thing in the world.

Plus, the stuff dilla said about never burn bridges with family members: if my mother, for example, is such a low life character then i would leave her behind sooner or later. Thats for sure.

My parents (namely my dad) had burned bridges with certain members of his family, including his aunts/uncles and parents. When someone was in trouble, all of a sudden nothing mattered and they all came together. This was after 9 years of no contact, whatsoever. All of a sudden, it was rekindled in a heartbeat. Once all was said and done, they all reflected on how silly it was and how much was lost by having their faggot verbal embargo.

Everyone's situation is different, Seb. The people in it are too. I'm not a very sympathetic person, but I do have some in me. Perhaps yours takes a bit longer to reach. Which is fine.

 

[keco52]

I can relate to your family situation and you don't neccessarily have to cut them off but you need to start putting yourself and your needs first. It's not selfish. You need to learn to not seek approval or validation or even thank yous and happy birthday wishes from them because you'll just end up disaapointed. It's shitty but the sooner you come to terms with it the happier you'll be in the end.

My aunt asked me if her and her 2 kids could move into my spare bedroom and I had to tell her no. (my 19 year old brother just moved out of it a few weeks prior) I felt heartless wondering if her and her kids would be homeless. It was all placed on my shoulders. I asked my friends and they encouraged me to stop being a pushover and tell her no. It was extremely hard for me because I would do anything for my family. I felt better after standing up for myself. I have an extra bedroom because I worked to have it that way. I don't owe it to anyone to let them stay there. Later on I heard that she told someone "You need to just abandon your responsibilities like me...." so she is in her situation by choice.

 

[Jokerman]

HaPPy birthday, Shadows!

Even though your gripes are justified, just keep in mind that people who change don't blame and complain. People who complain and blame don't change. Which do you want to be? Nothing is going to change until you have no more energy or desire to blame. Then, you will begin looking for solutions.

 

[dilla]

You need a career that will keep you stable for the rest of your life. Music shouldn't really be your priority right now, it should be something on the side. Your main focus should be to save the money you're making and get a place of your own and get back into school. If I recall correctly, you only had a few classes left until you graduated. Maybe a semester or two?

Hey, it's easy to give advice, so take it for what it's worth. But you gotta forget all the frivolous spending and socializing you do and try and maintain focus on securing a future. You can still do what you're doing now and worry about a career when you're near 40, but then you'll be like every other minority doing those ITT Tech commercials (truer, racist words have not been spoken).

 

[Sebastian]

Yeah.. because leaving your relatives behind is such an easy thing to do [/sarcasm]

Where did i say its easy?

 

[Sebastian]

My parents (namely my dad) had burned bridges with certain members of his family, including his aunts/uncles and parents. When someone was in trouble, all of a sudden nothing mattered and they all came together. This was after 9 years of no contact, whatsoever. All of a sudden, it was rekindled in a heartbeat. Once all was said and done, they all reflected on how silly it was and how much was lost by having their faggot verbal embargo.

Everyone's situation is different, Seb. The people in it are too. I'm not a very sympathetic person, but I do have some in me. Perhaps yours takes a bit longer to reach. Which is fine.

Exactly, everyones situation is different. You said you should NEVER burn bridges with any family member. Clearly there are circumstances where its the best you can do.

 

[dilla]

^^ I actually believe it's best not to burn bridges with anyone. That's different that simply "distancing yourself" from them. You maintain contact, but minimal. You don't just abandon them. You never know where you may see them again. There's nothing more awkward than being forced to interact with someone you left on a bad note with. This happened to me many times in high school where I had disagreements about stupid shit with people, only to realize some time later that that same person will be coming into contact with me again, and how awkward it's going to be. You never know when you'll need someone. Or someone will need you.

 

[_carmi]

Where did i say its easy?

You certainly made it sound as such.

 

[dilla]

Did the thrill of Hangouts magically go away? I don't read about you faggots trying to organize one like a bunch of quadriplegic queers anymore.

 

[Pittsey]

Then you are wrong. For some people it is the easiest thing in the world.

Plus, the stuff dilla said about never burn bridges with family members: if my mother, for example, is such a low life character then i would leave her behind sooner or later. Thats for sure.

I agree with Sebastian. I have never had to burn bridges, because my family is very, very cool.

But my Dad cut himself off from his shit family, didn't bother me at all. My grandfather lived 5 minutes from my house and I didn't go see him for 10 years. Even on his death bed, I didn't bother. Fuck him. If someone is "evil", no matter their relationship to me, I can't be bothered. I went to his funeral out of respect to my dad and my uncles, but I didn't feel remorse. If my Dad was the same as him, it'd be the same situation.

Did the thrill of Hangouts magically go away? I don't read about you faggots trying to organize one like a bunch of quadriplegic queers anymore.

I am very busy. But I love webcaming. And I am always up for it, but timezones are a bit of a pain.

 

[dilla]

I agree with Sebastian. I have never had to burn bridges, because my family is very, very cool.

But my Dad cut himself off from his shit family, didn't bother me at all. My grandfather lived 5 minutes from my house and I didn't go see him for 10 years. Even on his death bed, I didn't bother. Fuck him. If someone is "evil", no matter their relationship to me, I can't be bothered. I went to his funeral out of respect to my dad and my uncles, but I didn't feel remorse. If my Dad was the same as him, it'd be the same situation.



I am very busy. But I love webcaming. And I am always up for it, but timezones are a bit of a pain.

Switch timezones, then. Duh.

 

[S O F I]

I miss seeing Pittsey's face.

 

[dilla]

Did you become super mod because of that gay popularity contest?

 

[S O F I]

which one?