You have your own opinion and I accept that but I dont understand how more people around a dying person makes that person's death less sad? If you've watched someone labor for every breath in obvious pain you would know it doesn't matter if they have 100 people around them it doesn't take the pain away from that person.
Can we agree that we all want to be remembered? It is only human, hell I want to be, even though I wish I had the courage and dignity to want be one of the many unidentified bodies of the battle of Saratoga. Then can we agree, that our whole life (not to compress it's meaning down to only this) is an accumulation of things to leave behind as a legacy, a remembrance? Swayze and all of us, know this truth, even if only subconsciously. He has that gift, of perpetual remembrance. I also maintain that to be rich and famous, you have to try pretty hard to be unhappy or live a unfulfilled life (unless your in a 2pac-esque situation, which was indeed, his fault) But I can see people wanting to jump down my throat for that one too, so lets not get into that. Realizing all this and to have so many people care about you, also, in a sense, love you, doesn't take away from pain? Not physically but emotionally? Certainly.